Maybe it's better to ask questions before committing yourself to an action?
By e-mail from Ben, uploaded now as a guest blog.
A Heavily Paraphrased Story
"Run with your head against this wall, + it will magically disappear. Trust me." said the CareersAdvisor to the JobSeeker.
The JobSeeker then ran head-first against the wall, + badly hurt themself.
So the JobSeeker asks: "Why did you say that? What is wrong with you?"
"Well," the CareersAdvisor answered, "we don't do magic. We only raise aspirations."
Just felt like sharing it...